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🔥 2. “Sex is Energy: The Sacred Power (and Danger) of Sexual Exchange”

  • Writer: pvdbovenkamp
    pvdbovenkamp
  • Jul 8
  • 3 min read

Let’s Be Real

Sex isn’t just physical.It’s not just pleasure.It’s energy.


And if you’ve ever felt completely drained after being with someone — or completely alive — you already know this is true.


Sex is one of the most powerful spiritual acts we can engage in. It’s creation. It’s merging. It’s exchange.


And it’s also where many of us lose ourselves.

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🔄 I Used to Think Sex Was Just... Sex

Like many people, I grew up with a warped idea of what sex really meant.

Movies, culture, stories — they told me it was about conquest.

About proving something.

About physical release.

About validation.


But no one told me that every time I share myself that deeply — I open.

No one told me that I take something in.

Or leave something behind.

No one told me that sex is a conversation of souls.

A field of energy that either uplifts or depletes — depending on the presence behind it.



The Turning Point

There was a moment — one I’ll never forget.

I was with a partner, and during climax there was this sudden burst of white-blue light.Both of us felt it. Like a jolt of life force moving through the room.

No words. Just power.

That was the moment I knew…This is more than physical. This is sacred.



🌀 The Energy Behind the Act

Every time we have sex, we’re doing three things:


  1. Merging energy fields — your auric and spiritual body is interacting directly with another.

  2. Exchanging emotions and frequencies — especially if unspoken, those hidden feelings still move through you.

  3. Anchoring intention — whatever you feel or believe in that moment gets amplified and planted in your energy field.


If you’re doing this unconsciously? You could be creating ties, cords, and energetic contracts that affect you long after the act is done.



🔥 Sacred Sex vs. Habitual Sex

There’s nothing wrong with loving sex.

I do too.


But there’s a big difference between conscious sexual exchange and just filling a void.

Sex can be a healing force —Or it can be a way to bypass our deeper wounds.


When done with love, presence, and awareness, sex can activate parts of you that no therapy ever will.


But when used carelessly, it can deplete you faster than any addiction.



🧽 Energy Tips for Sexual Awareness

  • Breathe consciously: stay present in your body, not just lost in pleasure.

  • Visualize energy rising: at the edge of climax, try contracting your pelvic floor and visualize the energy moving up your spine and looping back down.

  • Cleanse afterward: especially if the connection felt heavy. Salt baths, cord-cutting meditations, or even a simple breath ritual can help.

  • Choose intentionally: not everyone deserves access to your field. Ask: “Do I want to carry this energy?”



💛 You Are Sacred

Your body is sacred.

Your energy is sacred.

Your pleasure is sacred.


Don’t let society numb you into believing otherwise.

You can still be wild.

You can still explore.

But do it with eyes open.


Know that your sex is your fire — and fire can burn or bless depending on how it’s handled.

So hold it well —maybe even play with it a little —but be conscious about it.


Because you’re not just here to feel good.

You’re here to know yourself through everything.

Including sex.


Much Love 💛

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